Dating Tips Lesson 10

Make Compliments:Woman have a deep fear that they are ugly. Just think of how women buy ANY cosmetic product on the market. Just think of all the make-up they have in their handbags. I was once in Hong Kong (China) and the owner of a fruit juice shop told me: "Men will never drink unsavory juices. They only drink sweet juices. But many women will drink them as soon as you tell them that it makes them prettier."

In fact this desire in women to look attractive is so strong that women in Afghanistan (although the Taliban introduced the death penalty for using make-up) still colored their eyes/lips secretly.

Thus:

* Women love compliments. It eases the fear of being rejected because of her outlook.
* Moreover: If you compliment her she feels confirmed that somebody actually noticed her outfit and comments on it rather than the notorious "Can I stand you a beer" teaser.
* You can make compliments on anything you notice: Her skin, her hair, her clothes...

BUT: Don't make a great deal about it. Don't start to write poems and name flowers after her. Because the No sex talks rule and the The irresistible Resistible rule still apply: You can make a "casual" compliment (as if it just slipped into your mind) and then continue to talk about something else.