Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Dating Tips Lesson 9

Things you need to know:Each conversation with a new woman should result in

* Knowing her (first) name
* Knowing common ground and mutuality
* Knowing her telephone number (plus know WHEN you can call her = the day time)
If you don't get her number you have lost. You can try to give her yours. But it is highly unreliable that she will call you back.
See also Use a business card.
* Knowing whether she has a boy-friend (don't bring this up until the very last minute) or if she is even married.
* Knowing what she dislikes (this is not that necessary, but can save you headaches)

Conversation suggestions:
Here are some suggestions how you can keep the conversation starting/going:

* Say "Hi" and smile at her (pretty simple, isn't it?)
* Ask her for the time, the date, the time the bus comes etc.
* Comment on her. Examples can be to make a note about clothes she wears or to compare her with a movie star. That shows that it's not the standard "Can I stand you a beer?"-talk
* Compliment her. See Make compliments.
* Follow up by asking her a question like: "Is there any secret behind your shiny hair?". This keeps the conversation going.
* Talk about food (e.g. when you meet her in a restaurant/coffee shop). This gets the senses going and creates a "stimulated" atmosphere.

In the end, it's up to you and the kind of woman you talk to.
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