Tuesday, September 30, 2008

How to Assure Single Women You Meet Online ..

How to Assure Single Women You Meet Online
That You're Not Crazy or Dangerous:An unfortunate reality is that women usually have to be more worried about this than men. A lot of women may be very skittish about meeting a man. Sometimes, a woman will initially be excited about the romantic nature of an email relationship, but then will get spooked when the reality hits that she actually has to meet this guy in person.

The tips I have for men are as follows:

Don't press her for a meeting. Be patient, trade mail with her a while, and allow the relationship to develop before you try to meet.

Don't press her for her phone number. If she offers it to you, great but don't ask her for it. Instead, after you've traded mail for a while, you should offer her your number. If she doesn't call, or offer you hers in return, that should tell you something.

At some point, whenever it feels appropriate, offer her some references, preferably female references. This is a particularly interesting one, and is an option not many people think of. What better way of assuring a woman that you're okay than to have her talk to women who know you? Ask several women you know (at least two I would think) if they will be willing to serve as personal references for you. You'll probably be surprised at how many women will be delighted at the prospect of checking references on you. The very fact that you're willing to offer up this kind of reference to a woman will also tell her you're a gentleman.


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